Singlehood doesn’t have to be a time of suffering or loneliness. It’s not a place of deficiency or lack. Singlehood should be celebrated and explored – these are the years where many of us actually find out who we are. Let's take the trip...
1. Go On Vacations - Vacations are expensive and when you’re married your boo might not want to go where you go. So take your vacations and go where you want.
2. Take a trip Abroad - Don’t just go on any vacation, go abroad. Get out of the country and see the world.
3. Quit Your Job - If you don’t like your job, quit. Because when you have a family, you’ll need those bills paid more than ever. Now is the time to experiment.
4. Relocate - Take a chance on a new life in a new city. It’s easier now than when you have someone with jobs of their own to worry about.
5. Go Out To Eat. Alone. - Go to really fancy restaurants and enjoy. That way, you’re guaranteed to buy what you want without worrying about how much it’ll cost.
6. Waste Money On Yourself - Not, like, all of it. But definitely now is the time to up your sophisticated, classic collections you’ve always wanted.
7. Save Money - Also, keep a stash on the side for savings so you’ll be set up in marriage.
8. Go On Dates - Meet new people. Find out your type. Just go date and enjoy it.
9. Hang Out With Your Friends - Spend as much time with them as possible because when you get those kids it’s a wrap and you’ll never see them again.
10. Get In Shape - Use that free time at the gym and get ripped.
11. Relax - Don’t stress out over being single. This is the most important thing. Relax and the one will come to you in time.
12. Spend a weekend with a married couple your age. -Listen to how they speak to one another. Notice their non-verbals. Ask about the rhythms of their daily life. Make a mental note: marriage is not perfect, nor is it the solution to what ails you. Be happy for your married friends and satisfied in where you’re at today.
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