For a while Now OAP Freeze has been using his social media handle to talk about his marriage that crashed.
On Sunday he put
something on his social media handle that caused his estranged wife Ope
Olarinde to put out a press release asking to be left alone.
Freeze has finally opened up on why his marriage crashed and all the drama that ensued.
Read the interview....
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| Freeze and estranged wife Ope |
For a while Now OAP Freeze has been using his social media handle to talk about his marriage that crashed.
On Sunday he put
something on his social media handle that caused his estranged wife Ope
Olarinde to put out a press release asking to be left alone.
Freeze has finally opened up on why his marriage crashed and all the drama that ensued.
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-Freeze this interview means a lot to me and a lot of other people who
used to have a lot of respect for you but lost it becos of your ongoing
ISH with your ex Ope...so i am going to ask you questions directly and
without mincing words.I would also appreciate direct answers even if you
have to cuss me out.
Why
have you repeatedly called out your estranged wife Ope via your social
media handles?Why Freeze?why?why are you so angry?bitter?Why did you go
online to call her an adulteress?Do you have proof of your accusations
and if yes can you tell me a little about this proof?
- I am
not perfect, not even near, but I will not take blame for a crime I
didn't commit and won't allow my name to be destroyed by this woman. Ope
was raised by a single mother who had seven children from three
different fathers. Everyone discouraged the relationship pointing out
her mother's situation and warning me that this might lead to a
character flaw in Ope but what did I know?
I was
in love. By the time I understood the enormity of the damage done to her
by her upbringing, it was already too late and she was pregnant with
our first child. I decided to get married to Ope turning a deaf ear to
numerous warnings of the consequences of such an action.
From
the first year of marriage I started seeing her true character. She
talked without any respect whatsoever and would fight me and hurl curses
like a market woman, while saying to me "it is better I curse you and
hit you than for GOD to strike you!" My parents have been married for
40years and I believe that divorce should never be an option. So I
endured the violence.
Adultery
is one of the most difficult things to prove but if a married woman
keeps late nights, has unwholesome friends, comes home tipsy regularly
and she makes calls to strange men at ungodly hours within her husbands
home eyebrows will definitely be raised. There was this one time I went
to the UK for work. I sent my assistant with a cheque to my house at
midnight and she wasn't home,she had dropped the kids with my sister and
disappeared into the night!
What
about the time she saved a mans number under her female friends name
sometime in 2007 and we had a huge fight about it, leading me to almost
end the marriage at that time. It has never been my intention to call
her out on social media and if you remember clearly I avoided making any
comment initially since it's an embarrassing situation for both of us
and the children already, however she is hellbent on destroying
everything I stand for just to make herself look good. This has left me
with no other option than to speak the truth!
2- I saw the pictures you released online yesterday of your bloodied face,what happened?who beat you up blue black and why?
Ope
beat me up black and blue. I have received beatings from someone who was
supposed to be my better half and a weaker vessel for little or no
provocation. I was once attacked physically while on the phone with one
of my biggest clients and the client listened through the attack that
left me badly injured.
Several
of my friend have witnessed her attacks. She is a very jealous and
possessive person and believes the best way to stop a man from cheating
is to embarrass him before any potential threat.
She is also very insecure as a result of her upbringing and is suspicious of everyone and everything.
3 -We read a lot from
comment sections where stories of both of you are posted but i am
asking you directly now,why did your marriage crash and why couldn't you
as a man save it?
My
marriage crashed like 6 or 7 years ago. In her bid to have absolute
control Ope severed ties with my family. She created such a hostile
environment that my family avoided visiting as much as possible. In
order for me to have a happy home I had to do as she pleased or else all
hell would be let loose. I wasn't the perfect husband myself making a
few mistakes here and there but I always believed we could work on our
issues if we stuck together.
The
straw that finally broke the camels back for me was when she lashed out
at my mother, attempting to slap her in the presence of my father and I
because my mother dared question her coming home at 11.30pm leaving the
children without dinner.
To me
that was the highest form of insult a man could ever take and I felt I
had failed my family if that was the best daughter-in-law I could
provide for them. I still stayed on in the marriage for the sake of the
kids but my heart and soul had departed.
Even
after she packed out of our matrimonial home I tried to send my sister
after her to plead with her just for the sake of the children but she
refused. Like 6months before she packed out she changed jobs to her
present company Seadrill limited without even informing me. I found out
because her ID changed and up until today I don't know where that
company is.
4 -
It is alleged that you have a new family...a baby mama who is still
married with four other children who happens to have contributed to your
marriage crash....If it is not too much to ask can you please explain
this?And please while you are at it,tell me when you saw your kids last.
Yes I
am in a relationship but let me squash the rumor. she is not an older
woman, she is a lot younger than I am and she does not have four
children. I didn't start dating her until three or four months after Ope
deserted our matrimonial home leaving me in a severe state of
depression. She has been wonderful to me, gave me a shoulder to cry on
and picked me up from the mess I was in.
My
family adore her and her family is really cool with me and I am praying
to GOD that she will be my last bus stop. Ope has prevented me from
seeing my kids for over a year now. I remember picking my son up from
school last year and she drove to my house with thugs in her car,
barricaded my gate and started screaming to attract the neighbours that I
wanted to kidnap her son.
5- I
am sure that at one point you must have loved your wife dearly.I don't
know how you feel about her right now and i wont ask but i need to know
if you are looking for closure and if you need counselling?
Yes, I
loved her but that was a very long time ago. Her destructive spirit
killed the love a long time ago. It grew to anger, hatred, bitterness
and my current state of indifference towards her. She had a friend that
was kicked out of her marriage because she was caught with juju.
This
same friend made sure that she ended OPE'S marriage and I am leaving
that friend to GOD! I suffered so much in the hands of this woman I was
so depressed that I was almost suicidal. A friend of mine advised me to
go into sports to maintain my sanity but I absolutely detest sports.
The
only sport I can tolerate is Formula1. I went to watch a race and Oris
watches were advertised so I bought one. I had always loved watches but
on a much smaller scale. I started with brands like Oris, Tissot, Rado
and Raymond Weil then I graduated to the bigger dogs. I used to stay up
all night researching on wristwatches and searching for the best service
centre etc What started as a hobby to battle my depression has fast
become my greatest passion!
I am
over this relationship with Ope, I wish her all the best in life as I
have long moved on. I have an amazing woman in my life and a couple of
weeks ago we were blessed with an adorable son!
I use
this as a medium to beg her to allow me access to our children something
she has totally denied me for over one year! She should be advised to
be careful with the kind of accusations she makes because they could
ultimately be damaging to the reputation of her children's father. I
never draw first blood, I have always reacted to what she did never the
other way round.
This is my closure,i don't need any counselling.
Thank you for this interview,I wish you all the best.
Thank you too!
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